no disappointment, pal, that's why i asked .. but obviously tagging, like chess, isn't a simple sport
seeing the 2.Ng6+ hxg6 3.Rh3# sequence and the king trapped at h1, i considered it a "back rank mate" threat .. it hadn't occurred to me that 1...Qxe3 totally stops that threat .. so, like pawn promotion it was the threat i was focusing on more than the actual solution move .. at least the correct tag is "not so clear" to you .. that is some consolation

however, i don't clearly see it as an "exposed king" especially since the 2.Ng6+ is no longer an option .. for me, when i label a problem "exposed king" the king is generally out in the open in the orginal position .. but dlester's definition clarifies that a bit as the "threat on the king" is certainly a part of the initial Nh4 move
EXPOSED KING: I use this tag a lot. If an attack on the king, or a threat of an attack on the king is any part of the tactical motif I throw this tag on there. It is very generic, and since many of the puzzles do involve some kind of tactic relevant to king safety this one is almost always accurate. [dlester]
regarding attraction, it seems by leaving the rook under attack by the queen, i am baiting the trap, indeed forcing it - smells like cheese to me

while on attraction, you said, "Usually attraction is getting the king to take a free piece, and then you mate it on that new square." .. i recently labelled a problem just like that as attraction, but i have more frequently seen examples where a piece, other than the king, is offered to be subsequnetly taken .. the next time i run across one of those, i'll confirm it with you to be sure
"Sacrifice" doesn't seem to apply either, since, once again, giving up the knight in 2.Ng6+ hxg6 is not happening and giving up the rook for the queen in 1...Qxe3 isn't a sacrifice .. is it? for me, it is bait
i realize that my reference source for descriptions is unofficial, at best .. i've attached my current text file which i am now using for when making tagging decisions .. it includes the link to the orginal replies by dlester and Richard which i consolidated and am adding to with enhancements from you and others as i encounter them .. maybe you could take a few minutes to review them or maybe Richard will provide some more official ones soon .. my goal with this is to create for myself and anyone interested a reference guide with hyperlinks to "approved" examples of each problem type .. right now it is a simle text file
thanks again for the reply, Drahacik .. i'd like to contribute to the tagging effort, but i want to get it right .. i'm not quite sure how or why, but it feels like developing a working a familiarity with tagging problems like this will directly contribute to solving them as well, both here and OTB .. so, corrections and suggestions are most appreciated .. fear not, i'll get one right soon

btw, i omitted the "Back Rank Mate" tag, but left "Attraction" in place (it still looks like cheese to me) .. feel free to ammend as you or others would like