"It is important to note that if you do a lot of tactics per day like on CT or CTS you WILL have a temporary decline in rating becuase your thoughts are UNBALANCED. ex. you concentrate more on your plans than your opponents"
The guy at the local club who coaches me informally noted this in my play and pointed it out to me. "You're finding tactics for yourself but you're not seeing your opponent's tactics." It's a real danger. To combat it, I now take a few moments to look at the board and try to find a tactical opportunity for my opponent. I'm not quite "there" yet but it is helping.
thanks for passing along this tip,
chipschap .. this may be a little off-topic, but thought i would reply anyway .. i haven't played in 30+ years prior to returning to chess about a month ago .. i was never that good OTB and never a rated player .. having studied the game many more hours than i ever played, solving tactics problems was my favorite endeavor .. growing up in a small town had many advantages, but finding other chess players wasn't one of them
i am now putting the majority of my time into tactics training here and at CTS .. while my ratings are still meager, i can see gradual positive improvement on most days and then there are days that are but a daze

recently, after a lengthy and successful session where i was really "seeing" problems well, i ventured forth into a few rated games at FICS (i've generally been avoiding rated games) .. i was awful, not bad as usual just plain awful
however, in 2 games earlier tonight at FICS, i found myself seeing my opponents tactics for the first time as your friend suggested (both of us were rated around 1300 and playing 30 0 games) .. i still blundered badly a couple of times, as did my opponent, but according to Crafty i was picking best moves much more frequently than usual in both games .. that rather than win or lose is my current measure of success
before embarking on any concentrated strategical studies, i'll try adding your friends suggestion to my game play .. it should at least prove interesting and hopefully helpful .. for example, tonight i saw (more clearly than usual) a couple of tactical traps i recognized from CT and CTS work and managed to avoid them - such is progress
